So much is changing around me. In fact, I’m changing so much in parallel too. I’ve had my house changed. Brexit happened. Covid evolved from being a viral meme to a serious virus that’s now viral. And these days, the streets have fewer faces to be seen.
London’s been gloomy as always. The cloudy skies that leave small traces of bright blue behind. An ever so shy and timid sun. It’s out there and you still wouldn’t believe in it to deliver its share of promised warmth. It’s almost the time to discard the thick jackets of the winter and embrace loose summer shirts. The city isn’t there yet. Neither am I.
The virus now being taken seriously has prompted a lot of us to work within the confines of our homes. For many, it’s a blessing in disguise. Time to finally spend with the family. For mavericks like me, that’s more in-time in prison than anything else. Us extroverts are finally living the introvert dream. All the time in the world and absolutely no where to go.
My day starts rather early. 5 am phone calls. The clock struck 10 today. I unlocked my phone to see an empty slot for an hour. “Fantastic”, I mumbled. I reached out to my favorite Red coffee mug. I filled it to the brim with water and microwaved it away till purgatory. I reached out to a fresh new box of Chamomile + honey something and pulled a pouch of weird smelling bag of tea. I dunked the bag and a minute later, I had reached a park. Oh yes, I’ve lived in this building for two years and just discovered that we had a private park. I make it a point to loiter the park and bask in the sun, whenever time permits. The park is quite isolated. It’s for the residents and not many gather there! There is no fear of a midsommer sacrifice or the burning of the village idiot. It’s a nice quiet little place.
There was one single bird in part and none worth its equivalent hidden in the bush. The bird wasn’t chirping. I guess it also enjoyed the same enthusiasm that I had this fine wonderful morning. I guess the two caged souls wanted the assurance that we weren’t the only ones trapped and strung by the world. We both shared the same rebellious gene of braving the barren skies.
I noticed another bloke seated in a distant corner. I took a sip from my lukewarm cup.
“How’s the Friday treating you”, I called out.
I had yanked my stranger neighbor from an intense trail of thought.
“I guess I’ll know when I get there” he said. “It’s still Thursday”, he proclaimed. He passed a judgmental look. He probably thought I was one of those carefree hippies who get high early in the morning and end the day on the same high note.
“No it isn’t. It’s Friday”, I argued.
“Thursday, My friend” , he assured me. His confidence shook my confidence. He could be right. The days don’t make a difference to me any more. It’s the same old routine of waking up early, opening my shop and taking calls till mid day and settling down with spreadsheets all afternoon. It could be a Monday or the day the helll froze over. It wouldn’t make any difference to me. Everything was just the same.
“You sure?” , I surrendered.
“I don’t know” , he paused. We were two men. Institutionalized by this point in time. We were both creatures of a routine and felt lost and directionless without that support system of a routine. No more train times, no more bill boards, no more news papers, no more food of the day in the canteen. I walk into the nearest grocery store at 6 in the morning each day and pick up what ever is left. The right word is scavenge. Yesterday they had one loaf of bread left. Today, they had none. Yesterday, they didn’t have any canned tomatoes. Today, there was one left. I pick whatever is left. I cook and hit the shop each day hoping to find something. I didn’t bother stocking up. I know me. All the planning aside, the stock piled up in the house would expire and I’d throw it away. I didn’t want to deny the next paranoid bloke the victory of overstocking and appearing smart to his spouse. I didn’t want the next bloke to return disappointed in front of his kids. I have things that I can survive on and I’m happy to take my chances.
“It is Friday” he finally declared.
“Man, you gave me such a scare” and we giggled like a bunch of school kids. Men!!!!!
All said and done, I like the fact that I’ve slowed enough to walk into a park. I had the foresight to make a cup of tea and take it to the park. I love the simple pleasure and joy of spending a given weekday’s hour , sitting in a park and feeling silly about the way of the world. Maybe life was meant to be lived this way and somehow all of us lost the sight of it. We are always in a rush to go somewhere, be somewhere, look for the future, forget the past, live the present, work on the spreadsheet, put that power point slide to a better use.
For what it’s worth, I felt lucky to be exactly where I was. The hour due, Office 365 breaks the trail of thought to remind of places that I ought to be, to make decisions that I ought to be making and earn that pay check that I make.
Thanks China. Thanks Chamomile.. and yes, is chamomile spelt that way or is it Camomile ? Even google was uncertain about it.
Karthik